Difficult Conversations • Tactical Rehearsal

Eroding Team Trust — Senior Engineer Behavior

Hard Difficulty12 minYour Role: Manager
Your Strategic Objective

Address trust erosion head-on and set expectations for collaborative behavior going forward

The High-Stakes Context

You’ve had feedback from several teammates, and this 1:1 is your opportunity to raise the issue before it causes deeper morale or delivery damage.

Amara is a technically respected senior engineer, but lately she’s been bypassing agreed processes, dismissing peer input, and being inconsistent with follow-through. Teammates have started raising concerns about working with her.

Anticipated AI Pushbacks (Curveballs)

Your counterpart is programmed to test your poise. Expect realistic objections like:

I don’t see how this is a trust issue. I’m just doing what needs to get done.
Maybe the problem is that others are too soft and can’t keep up.
Suggested Opening Icebreaker

Unsure how to start? In the simulator, you can pre-fill or adapt this opener:

"Amara, I wanted to have a direct conversation about some patterns I’ve been hearing from the team and what I’ve been seeing lately."
Competencies:#trust#senior-leadership#accountability#collaboration#difficult#Direct#Respectful#Clear#Grounded
Counterpart Dossier
Amara Singh

Amara Singh

AI Persona

Senior engineer whose behavior is undermining team trust

Stance: confident

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